Welcome Grey Goose. You are in a great situation to fade - no wife or kids.
Your apparently biggest step is going to be stepping down as a Ministerial Servant - but it's not difficult at all! Eventually, the lies you have to tell in your "teaching assignments" will chew up your conscience so badly, that telling the CoBE you're quitting as an M.S. will be easy.
Been there, done it - I just told the two elders that my reasons were private & personal, and refused to say more! Seriously bugged them. :)
You now have to follow your own route. Best wishes.